A month ago I turned 30.
Age has never been a big thing for me – age to me is more of a state of mind, and I’ve
got no qualms about a number. But
something about the big 3-0 seemed special and different; leaving my 20’s meant
taking on the role of being a real, experienced adult. I’m no longer a ‘twenty-something’, a phrase
that lately seems to invoke ideas of nothing but a free-spirited traveler, exploring the
endless possibilities ahead, living with sometimes reckless abandon, figuring out life and making plenty of mistakes along
the way that will serve to form the basis of the responsible choices that will
eventually follow. I suppose, reflecting
back, that sort of described the last decade of my life – although my travel was more
in the form of roadtrips around America than travel around the world. I certainly learned a lot in my
twenties, about just about everything – education, relationships, friendships,
bartending, hangovers, late nights, city living, adult responsibilities,
choices, irresponsible choices, priorities, making mistakes, pursuing dreams,
and all of the life lessons in between – but I’m happy to turn the next page
and see what my thirties are all about.
In honor of this special birthday, and to celebrate a year of Peace Corps service, I decided to do some
island hopping in southern Thailand.
With no real plan in mind except an idea of where I wanted to go, I took the overnight bus to Bangkok
and left the next evening on the train to the southern province of Trang. I wanted beautiful beaches and sparsely
populated islands that were small enough to walk around. I had packed my tent and planned to go with the
cheapest of all possible accommodations: camping. Lodging can get expensive, especially on the
islands, and I wanted to use my money for other things. I arrived in Trang in the morning, found a
minivan to a pier, got on a boat full of Thais and was on the beach in no time
at all. The first stop was Koh Mook –
the largest of the three islands I visited, and the only one inhabited by
locals. It was a little challenging to
find a place to camp – the beach areas were dominated by resorts and everyone I
asked just told me no. I finally found a
place that had a covered area where I could set up my tent for 100baht/night (about
$3). I set my tent up and went out to explore
and enjoy the first of many beautiful island sunsets.
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Pier to Koh Mook |
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First camp site |
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Sunset at Koh Mook |
Koh Mook is known for the Emerald Cave,
a cave that requires you to swim through an enclosed tunnel of water to get to
a small, open air beach area on the inside.
I found a place that rented kayaks for the day instead of the hour and
was told I could kayak around the island to the cave. I spent most of the day in the kayak,
reveling in the incredible scenery and stopping at a small beach on the
way. A few locals had suggested going to
the cave in the late afternoon after all the tourist ferries had left for the
day. I heeded their advice and got there
to find just a couple small boats anchored outside. I kayaked in through the tunnel all the way
to the opening that ended at a small beach area. It was pretty cool, and I actually had it all
to myself as I was the last one to leave late in the afternoon (although it was
a little creepy kayaking through the dark tunnel with no one else around).
A couple days later I somewhat reluctantly intended to make my way to
another island: Koh Ngai. I met the same
tour boat operator I had come to this island with, and he told me to join in
with them as they’d be making their way to Koh Ngai. He let me join in on the rest of their tour – lunch,
snorkeling, and two other small islands included for no extra charge than the
transportation to the next island.
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Transportation between islands: tour ferry |
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Snorkeling stop |
When I got to Koh Ngai I got off and started to make my way
to the opposite end of the beach where I’d heard of a place I could set up my
tent. This island was also gorgeous, but
I couldn’t help but think it paled a little bit in comparison to the personal
paradise I found at Koh Kradan. I found
the place I was looking for: a locally owned area of beachfront property called
Light My Fire Society, run by a Thai man named Don and described as an easy
living freedom camp. Don gave me a spot to set up my tent and even let me borrow a small mattress and pillow as well. It was a great (and cheap) place to stay, and even included night time bonfires with a little live music around the fire.
I spent my time here in much the same way I had at the
previous island: exploring, relaxing and taking in the gorgeous views. The more I travel by myself the more I enjoy
it. Of course it’s a little bit lonely
sometimes, but to be able to pick up on a whim each and every day without
worrying about someone else’s plans, interests, hesitations or complaints is
pretty awesome. This was the first time
I’d spent my birthday alone with no friends or family around. It felt strange, but being able to celebrate
my 30
th birthday on a few relatively secluded islands in southern
Thailand is
something I might never do again in my life, and it was everything I wanted it
to be. A couple days later I reluctantly bought a ticket to the
ferry and made my way back to the mainland.
I was headed to
Bangkok
for a week for our Mid-Service Conference.
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Paradise |
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